When men stop believing in God, it isn't that they then believe in nothing: they believe in everything. ~Umberto Eco
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You were just babies then!" she said.
"What?" I said.
"You were just babies in the war— like the ones upstairs!"
I nodded that this was true. We had been foolish virgins in the war, right at the end of childhood.
"But you're not going to write it that way, are you." This wasn't a question. It was an accusation.
"I — I don't know," I said.
"Well I know," she said. "You'll pretend you were men instead of babies, and you'll be portrayed in the movies by Frank Sinatra and John Wayne or some of those other glamorous, war-loving, dirty old men. And war will look just wonderful, so we'll have a lot more of them. And they'll be fought by babies like the babies upstairs." So then I understood. It was war that made her so angry. She didn't want her babies or anybody else's babies killed in wars. And she thought wars were partly encouraged by books and movies.
So I held up my right hand and I made her a promise: "Mary," I said, "I don't think this book of mine is ever going to be finished. I must have written five thousand pages by now, and thrown them all away. If I ever do finish it, though, I give you my word of honor: there won't be a part for Frank Sinatra or John Wayne.
"I tell you what," I said, "I'll call it The Children's Crusade." She was my friend after that.
~From the novel Slaughterhouse-Five, by Kurt Vonnegut
I saw this last night, Pete Hegseth on FOX News saying "Diversity is not our strength."Bullshit. Yes, it is.
This soup sandwich knows that, or he was supposed to, anyway.
He just hopes you don't, and he has nothing but contempt for the inbred dipshits that watch Fox News, either. His religiosity is a lie, he's a drunk misogynistic fuckup idiot and somebody else probably did his job for him in the military most of the time. I didn't have officers like that. I know them that did, though.
I served with people of pretty much most (if not all, I mean, fuck I don't know. We didn't have time for that shit) races and everybody has something to bring to the table, or they wouldn't fucking be there in the first place. I served in the Air Force during the implementation of DADT, and when I was a Sergeant, my best-performing, hardest working troop was a gay man. He was also a Tongan-American (although he was born in Utah) and both fiercely Fundamentalist Christian and a Republican. (Also, it wasn't this bad back then!) His culture, his beliefs, saw no issues with all that. He came out to us at a mutual military friend's wedding in the early aughts, but we all knew way before that. We didn't ask. He didn't tell us until he felt comfortable to do so. My bro retired from the Air Force in 2014 as a married man, his husband is also an Air Force veteran. This guy served in combat in Afghanistan and Iraq.
But let me tell you, I'd rather have the queeniest gay dude you can imagine watching my back than a jackass like Pete Hegseth. Never trust somebody that doesn't wash their hands, for one.
It ain't just that, though.
A bunch of the rest of my bros were Black, my LT was a woman. None of that mattered, we all bled red and wore green and...shit, we didn't have the time to be bigoted against each other (and it'd have been against regulations anyway...30 years ago, mind you) because we were there to do our duty, not score bullshit-ass political points with morons.
Conservatives don't even seem to understand that concept anymore. All they seem to want to understand is cultic sycophancy and selfishness.
But I'm a just put it like this. Look at the FOX News headline. "Europe plots to stop Trump from taking Greenland." Greenland is a part of Denmark, Denmark is a part of the EU.
It's not a "Plot" to defend your own country, or your allies. It's what you do.
Why do these fucking unserious morons think that the Danes and Greenlanders would somehow not defend their own country, or call upon allies for help?? I mean, good Lord, can you imagine if somebody put up a headline "US plots to stop China from attacking its territory" or "US plots against Radical Islamic terrorism" the same fucking people would be frothing and simmering with rage until they boiled over.
Just like Americans are, Danes and Greenlanders are free people.
Which, I suppose, is why Republicans apparently hate all three. Yes, that's right. These fucking people hate America.
The rest of the world and more than half of America does not like and will not "Submit" to Trump for reasons that should be perfectly well fucking obvious.These fucking people don't even give a shit about other Americans, though, much less the rest of the world. It's a cult.
I can't imagine what the fuck is wrong with people, that they'd make Trump their whole identity, but they have and here we are. What they're gonna do when this dude dies of bad health or old age or whatever, I've no idea.
And neither do they, they think the high, the narcissistic hummer, whatever, is gonna go on forever.
When it doesn't, these people will crash hard, but I think America's "brand" will have been trashed well before that.
And that is exactly why I think that America is going to break up, because these fucking assholes can't even grasp that a fair number of the people killed in the DC midair collision were very likely just like them, let alone summon up the basic empathy to say something as simple as "Sorry for your loss."
Among other things, several members of the US figure-skating team were on that plane, and if you think an expensive sport like that is going to be exactly overflowing with liberals...LOL.
They might not be your kind of "Conservative" and such people or their parents very likely will vote for Democrats at least some of the time...but downstate I happened to know a fuck-ton of people who were big into winter sports. My car insurance guy...also a friend of many years...was the coach of the local high school's ski team and a retired teacher himself, also an Army veteran, and he straight up said to me one time that, like me, he'd voted for both D's and R's depending on who made their case better at the time, or who might or might not be doing what he thought should be done about this or that issue that he cared about.
Like me, he was not solidly anti-Republican until Trump came along. (And also, this guy had money.) Some of the jokes we told and shit, some of our military stories, got us plenty of side-eye from the office ladies (who were all basic Democrats and always have been for as long as I dealt with that outfit.)No, the fact that the military has stuff like diversity training (and had it 32 years ago the first time I went through it) and observed Black History Month before this year absolutely does not make it or it's culture or the people who are in it "Woke."
People are people, period. We are all the fucking same, if you think about it in the least. Being a white "Conservative" or a Trump cultist does not make you special. MAGA being unable or unwilling to see that, along with simple-ass shitty Republican unreasonableness more generally, and especially the Trump Admin 2.0 having this tendency to break things and pull stunts without much care for more than how it plays with a bunch of John Birch Society chuckle-fucks in Idaho or Wyoming is very, very close to breaking this country.
You can't just beat a nation into the shape that you want it and expect not to break stuff, not to have a bunch of people hating you, etc. Any more than you could beat a kid out of being ADHD or into being a straight white Christian.
Not without risking that you or somebody you supposedly care about might not survive, anyway.
Ignoring cause and effect, or reality or science or the feelings of others or that they have their own beliefs does not make that stuff go away. And Everything comes back around.
Someday, assholes, you will be on the other side of somebody wielding power like a steel fist against you. Sometimes, you wanna give a shit about other people because you hope when things are bad for you, somebody else gives a damn. I mean, from a certain cynical point of view that's what Empathy is.
Acting like beasts just because some jagoff filled your ears with poison for years doesn't actually help you.
You show your "power" or something, Okay. Whatever the fuck that even means. You don't change anything, you're just making the ADHD kid or the gay kid or the trans kid have a harder life for no damn reason.
But then you have the nerve to wonder why nobody plans on showing up at your funeral, or why your gravesite has burnt grass or your headstone reeks of urine?
You have to give respect to get respect. Respect is earned by every action, every day. People won't go into battle...or at least will not do so very enthusiastically...for some braying jackass or relative status.Conservatives, of all people, should remember this. They are, for the most part, the ones who taught it to me.
Make it make sense, yo.
Because I sure can't.
The truth is these jackoffs don't much care about anybody but their own damn selves (and that, only in very limited ways like how much money they make) and by the time they figure out they're getting fucked too (if they haven't after this week) it'll be way too late to do anything about it.
Relative status will not fill your Mom's prescriptions nor pay her Social Security check, nor keep you warm in the cold, cold night. Racism, spite, and stupidity ain't a culture. Brutality and cruelty is not a noble cause or even an original idea. No, Fuck You. These aren't the Droids you're looking for.
And considering these fucking people's mentality that they'd basically be fine being slaves, so long as somebody else was a worse class of slave?? Well, my dudes, being a better class of slave don't make you free.
People are willfully enslaving themselves to this horseshit.
And the thing that gets me is there's fucking people who should damned well know better, who keep helping this bullshit along.
And yes, I'm looking at you, access media and elderly Democrats.
Get a grip, America. Donald Trump and Elon Musk don't give a shit about you.
You either believe in freedom or you don't.
Слава Україна!
My black face fades,hiding inside the black granite.
I said I wouldn't
dammit: No tears.
I'm stone. I'm flesh.
My clouded reflection eyes me
like a bird of prey, the profile of night slanted against morning.
I turn this way—the stone lets me go.
I turn that way—I'm inside
the Vietnam Veterans Memorial
again, depending on the light
to make a difference.
I go down the 58,022 names,
half-expecting to find
my own in letters like smoke.
I touch the name Andrew Johnson; I see the booby trap's white flash.
Names shimmer on a woman's blouse
but when she walks away
the names stay on the wall.
Brushstrokes flash, a red bird's
wings cutting across my stare.
The sky. A plane in the sky.
A white vet's image floats
closer to me, then his pale eyes
look through mine. I'm a window.
He's lost his right arm
inside the stone. In the black mirror
a woman’s trying to erase names:
No, she's brushing a boy's hair.
~Facing It, by Yusef Komunyakaa, US Army Veteran